I am dating a guy that plays mind games
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|Tue, 03-19-2013 - 7:58pm|
i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months -- in the last few months he has told me about his bathing suit model ex girlfriend on numerous occassions and makes sure to tell me every week that a new random girl has been flirting with him. But this week was a true winner.
let me begin by saying...I am 5'3" and 110 pounds. We went out to dinner this weekend and i joked with him that I always tend to put on 2 or 3 pounds in the summer (its all that ice cream -- lol!!!) He responded that he will be able to tell if I gained 2 or 3 pounds and he would not be happy. He went on to say that I should lose 8 pounds. I was in shock. How do you tell a 110pd woman to lose 8 pounds? I told him there is no way I will do that and I would not deprive myself. Thank God, I am a strong woman that doesn't listen to such nonsense. How insensitive to tell a 110pound woman to lose 8 pounds? Is he trying to kill me? At this point, I am so angry with him that I just can't get past it. I am really tired of the mind games. Any thoughts?