i am having doubts---Am I overreacting?

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Registered: 07-15-2004
i am having doubts---Am I overreacting?
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Sat, 10-15-2011 - 6:13pm

Met a guy on match in June.

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Registered: 11-01-2011
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 5:01pm

This sounds A LOT like a situation I have just found myself in. I'm also VERY suspicious. We live in different cities. We met once a few weeks ago while we both were attending a function in a different state. Both flew there for the day and had talked online prior to that. He said he's single, said that he travels all the time for work too but says he owns a house but he's never there. I mentioned coming to his city to visit bc I also have a few friends who live there too and he just says it would be nice if I came but he's never there for very long and always away on business.

I also, like you, notice that when he is on the road he texts me a lot and called late at night once saying he wished I was there with him, but when he's supposedly at home on the weekends he pretty much goes silent.

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Registered: 07-27-2000

Ooh, I wouldn't trust him, he lied about being divorced - what else do you need to know?

 


~~joannaran~~

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Registered: 09-21-2011

All the warning bells are going off!!!! He sound crazeeeeeee

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999

If he's telling the truth about his STBX then I wouldn't want to bother getting involved w/ him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2004

Hi.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 10-28-2011 - 9:21am

Hi lunar_gal,

Any updates on this?

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 7:41pm

Perhaps not.

chaika

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 10:52am

Especially for his wife...!!

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 5:21pm

That is the right answer.

chaika

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Registered: 10-29-2006
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 10:47am

A visit to his office could be very enlightening.

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