I screwed up can this be fixed. UGH! Mixed signals both sides.
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|Fri, 08-03-2012 - 12:20am|
Forgive me if this gets wordy, but I want to give as much info as possible.
I had worked with this guy, we were always flirting. I recently left the company we both worked at and we started texting each other. This slowly led to some sexting. Here's the issue he admits that he has been a friends with benefits(fwb’s for short) with someone for awhile and states that he wanted a relationship. (He this said before I left the company we both worked at) He suggested we could be fwb's too. He didn't realize that I was seriously interested in him. 2 days later I got laid off and another former coworker told him about it. When he called to see how I was doing, asked why he would suggests fwb’s with me when he was already in that situation already. He stated that he wasn’t serious that he sees me as a friend. Ironically this is the only thing I didn’t believe. We still text each other but it is stilted. He normally texts first, checking on how I’m doing, what I’m currently reading (we both are avid readers lol), how the job hunting is going? I know that I missed read a lot things. Yet he texts me normally 3 or 4 times a week from work while on breaks or lunches. Not sure how to proceed from here? Is the damage to sever to get him to think of me as more than a friend or friend with benefits? HELP