I'll never understand Relationships.
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|Tue, 04-01-2003 - 12:40pm|
Like say I had a good guy friend that's away at college and he comes in town and calls me for the first time in like a year and I've been w/ my b/f for like almost a year. So he wants me to hang out but I tell him I can't because my man and I have plans so I may get to see him and say hi but I don't give him the usual welcome hug and I only speak with him about school, the job, his gal and what's new. Not All the great times we've had in the past and all the memories or anything. So basically I'm uncomfortable and my friend may also be but my man has nothing to be worried about, has no reason to be uncomfortable or have any reason to be jealous or what ever. So there should be no reason for them not to at least get along with one another. Everythings fine.
If I were just friends with my b/f in this case, most likely they'd get along and have a good time together and maybe even become friends. (it's happened before)
Now lets say I give my friend this huge I miss you so much hug. (or even just a hug)and he's sooo excited to see me. I you know just talk about everything and anything almost endlessly without including my man and being in my own little world with my friends. I may introduce them but I don't let there be any time for my man to have any input in the conversation and continue to discuss the good 'ol days and his personal life. And just chat away. They're not gonna like one another very much or they won't even associate and my man will all be insecure and crap.
What's with all the B.s. What happened to two people being with one another happily without having to worry about stupid crap?? and having insecurities and being jealous. Wait it's not that that's the problem it's the fact that one guy or one girl can't be with ONLY one another and be content and happy forever. What's the point of marriage or even a relationship if that's how it's gonna be from now on? Who's really faithful now a days in EVERY way?? It's almost impossible. You talk to someone about the wrong thing and it's unfaithful. I just figure after I get out and over this relationship that I don't know what to even do about or with anymore that I'm gonna stay single and have the greatest party life and business life that I'll never want more of a commitment to anything but my job and my friends. At least I can trust friends and colleges most of the time. How am I to ever trust ANYONE? EVER?