Im just "right now"?????
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|Wed, 03-10-2010 - 9:15am|
This is my "friend" and my discussion recently. It's upsetting because I really thought things were going great and we could turn into something more. How can I be the "right one" instead of being the "right now"? as you will read we are good friends, have been for 8 years on and off because i moved away. But it recently turned into more. messing around and everything! No sex yet, he's a virgin, so we were taking it slow!
I'm going to write this against my better judgment...
I guess I just really want to know for my own piece of mind what you are really thinking.
Do you really not want a relationship?
Do you just want to hook up?
Am I just "right now" not the "right one"?
I am ok... with the possibility of us just being friends and maybe hooking up. I just don't want to invest "feelings" other than what I already have if this has no option of being a true relationship some day.
I'm ok with you being with me but still open to the possibility of finding someone else. But as long as you tell me that. I just don't want to get hurt or be confused in any way.
I completely understand if you just don't know what you want. It's not like you have had a million girlfriends in the past and are used to being in a relationship.
I just don't want to continue and you say that you're not interested in a relationship and then one day you all of a sudden have a girlfriend that isn't me. I can deal with being the girl you are with right now with no intentions of ever really being with me as long as you are honest about it now.