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|Tue, 09-23-2003 - 3:46pm|
Friends with a guy for three years - lost touch - ran into each other cross-country - became friends again.
Dated him for a year - he thought I was the one - we ended up breaking up bc I was travelling a ton and pretty naive in relationships. He said we could have had a great life together but didn't think we had anything in common. We talked a lot and conversations that he said he wished we had had before but he wasn't willing to try again.
Relationship was amazing until the very end - together all the time and he even mock proposed at one point. When we broke up he said we were taking a break - two months later he said that we had broken up at that point. We kept pushing to be friends but it was too soon for me. Then I tried being friends and he said I kept using the friendship as a way to tell him what a bad boyfriend he had been - I was in love with him and told him so. He said he couldn't ever see us back together but then said he just wasn't looking for anything right now with me or anyone else. But - turns out he had gone on a couple of dates -
He then called for no contact - I was making a lot of big personal decisions and respected that. But, did run into a friend of his in LA - ended up hanging out with him (platonic) and then crashing at his place (couch). Ex flipped out saying I should have talked to him about me missing him - but we had no contact. Said again that he wasn't working on anyone right now.
Went home yesterday to see him kissing another girl on the corner outside of my new place - she lives two blocks away so not sure why they were on that corner (peck on the mouth and then he started looking at her scooter which was parked there). Guess he is moving on. I sent him a msg saying I would love to have tried again and finally have all of my sh*t in order - had made my big decisions, etc. He will not respond.
Help - is this really such a mess there is no good ending? Everything I do to really make myself happy makes me realize how great we would have been together. The guy who was so in love with me though - refuses to talk to me.
ps - We have a ridiculous in common including being stubborn as hell - both love the outdoors and all sports - love gourmet food as well as in n' out burgers - love staying home as well as going out..