Is it me?
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|Tue, 03-09-2010 - 12:04am|
Okay, I'm confused. My boyfriend and I of 7 months, have a communication problem I guess you can say. I mean I know I do. I need to communicate more but that's not the reason why Im writing to understand men.
Okay, so my boyfriend and I just had this disagreement, that left me puzzled. Earlier today, I was venting to him about a situation I was in. He didnt seem like he was interested in the situation nor listening to what I had to say. His reply was, okay babe, I'm gonna go. I said to myself are you kidding me. Here I am trying to vent out what happened, and hes not here for me. So then I told him okay bye. I was way toooo worked up to even confront him about his reply. I figured let it cool off and I'll talk to him after that.
Well, later on tonight, he called me to ask me if I was going to come over. He got pissed off because of the way I answered the phone. I said, hello, and he said hi babe, then I said, yeah? I was not only still pissed off about my situation earlier but I was hurt about the fact of his reply when I spoke with him about my situation. He got pissed off and said, is that the way you talk to me? What is wrong with you? I said, I have had a rough day! Then he said, What gives you the right to talk to me that way? I was not only hurt because he was being so insensitive but I was shocked that he could have said that! So I said look, I just wanted to vent out my situation because so I can feel better. He then says, what gives you the right to vent out to me? I said, I have a right to vent out as long as we are a couple? I just wanted to vent so I can feel better. Then he said, Dont you ever disrespect me, do you understand that? I said, How did I disrespect you? He said the way you answered, you said Yeah? like you were implying what do you want. So then he said, did you or did you not say yeah like you were implying what do you want? I just hung up the phone on him. I was in tears and it made my day worse.
Any thoughts, suggestions.
Is it me?