is it reasonable to compare them?
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|Sat, 02-06-2010 - 11:11pm|
I have been with my bf for more than 1 yr.
We went to shopping yesterday. During the shopping, I went to bathroom , when I was out of bathroom, I saw he was calling sb. Yet he immediately said :" ok, have a good day and see you" through the cell when he noticed I walked close to him. I felt uncomfortable about it. He said he called A, whom I also knew.
After back home, I did sth that I should not do but I had no choice: I checked his cell when he was sleeping. Ys, he did call his friend A, but he also called his ex-gf. I felt I was fooled by him.
It makes me think of one thing happened on me: b4 I was with my bf, I once liked a guy so much(I call him X here), while X does not like me; at the same time, another guy liked me so much (I call him Y here), but I did not like him at all. We were all just friends at that time. One time I went out with Y to bank, and he had to ask sth there. During the time he asked advice, I actually was thinking of X, so I called X to say Hi.
I am wondering whether I can compare these 2 similar situation: I called X when I was with Y when he was asking advice from staff in bank, cz I actually liked X; My bf called his ex-gf when he was with me and when I went to bathroom; I of course did not want Y know that I called X, and my bf also did not want me to know he called his ex-gf. So based on my feeling and experience, can I say that my bf actually more like his ex-gf rather than me? B4 this I did not know he still contacts with his ex-gf. Although ppl are different, there are similar feelings among human beings.
what do you guys think? Thanks!