Just Sayin'

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Registered: 09-02-2006
Just Sayin'
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Tue, 02-23-2010 - 3:09am

K...so just my own observation: what is the deal with all of us women wondering, analyzing, pondering, contemplating...well you get the point.....about what a man thinks, feels, and throbs?

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 6:18am

I agree there's too much analysing going on, but I don't believe that introspective thoughts will fix it all.

>>So ladies, take a deep breath....if he is too busy to be into you, then YOU need to get back into you...or have a conversation with the man on non-defensive terms...lovingly, on a date, or over dinner, connect with him...he IS human afterall...<<

If you're only dating....and he's too busy to be into you: Don't bother with non-defensive conversation and loving dinners. Instead, accept that he's not into you, dump the dude and find someone who's not too busy to be into you.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 7:34am

Some, not all us women feel the need to psycho analyze men and

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Registered: 09-02-2006
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 4:05pm

I def agree with you both...I am over-generalizing it by poitning women out, yes men do this too.

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Registered: 09-16-2008
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 4:15pm
When I was dating, I just used the book "He's just not that into You". Man really tell you everything, without telling you.

http://0urkorner.blogspot.com/

             &nbs

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 02-23-2010 - 6:43pm
I think women overanalyze a situation when the real answer is right in front of their face, but it isn't the one they want, so they convince themselves that overthinking the situation will somehow change it to be in their favor.