Kissing and oral VS sex
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|Mon, 02-22-2010 - 10:18pm|
so my boyfriend is a virgin, last night was the farthest we've gone. He played a little underr the belt, and I gave him oral but stopped myself half way through it. Which probably killed him. But we talked, a lot. He put making out, fingering, and oral in one categorie and sex in another.
he said that he felt lke oral was not as intimate or personal, something lke that... As sex is. But to me oral is just a form of sex, and to me it's even more personal! It's not something I have or would do with any and every guy I have been with. I have dated and had sexual relationships with guys and never gave them oral.
I guess I would just love to know what other people think... Is oral not on the same level as sex? Would you wait to have sex but not for oral?