"Me" Time

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Registered: 06-08-2011
"Me" Time
Fri, 07-29-2011 - 6:34pm

What exactly does it mean when you're boyfriend of 6 months says he needs "me" time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 07-29-2011 - 6:58pm

Justme, he no longer says "I love you", he's distant, he says doesn't know how he feels about you and now he wants to spend less time with you.

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Registered: 04-25-2011
Fri, 07-29-2011 - 8:04pm

Not a good sign - I've been there years ago myself and I made sure I was gone before he did.

It was my ego

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Registered: 11-06-2008
Fri, 07-29-2011 - 9:27pm

Saddly I see a break up comin. Leave him alone and just go on with your life.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 08-01-2011 - 10:11am

I agree that this is a prelude to a breakup. He is trying to fade out of your life rather than doing the difficult thing by being direct and just ending the relationship.

At 6 months, a person who REALLY likes you will want to spend more time with you. Not less.