Meeting his kid

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Registered: 01-11-2010
Meeting his kid
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Mon, 06-28-2010 - 10:16am
Ok meeting the Bf's kid for the first time...is this a big deal to even be asked? Or am I blowing it way out of proportion? Any advice?
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Registered: 04-10-2010
In reply to: lc1221
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 11:49am

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Registered: 01-11-2010
In reply to: lc1221
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 12:56pm
The kid is 8 and I will be bringing my child along as well who is a toddler....
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: lc1221
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 2:24pm
I think it could be a big sign. How long have the two of you been seeing each other? Does he have custody of his child? Have the two of you discussed the future?



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Registered: 01-11-2010
In reply to: lc1221
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 2:29pm
Saw each other for a few months then we took a break been back on for 3 months. Has custody but he's in the service so the child lives with his family in another state.
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Registered: 05-18-2009
In reply to: lc1221
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 9:13am
I can understand maybe you're feeling some pressure, but I agree, keep it light. I would just treat him like you would treat your friend's kid.