Met Ex Boyfriend...Now What?

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Registered: 06-08-2011
Met Ex Boyfriend...Now What?
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Sun, 12-11-2011 - 1:26pm

I posted earlier that I was going to a party where my ex boyfriend would be. Well, the party was last night and I wanted to share with you what happened and what was said and get your advice. When my ex showed up he came into the room where I was at and said hello. I smiled and said hello back and went about helping the hostess in the kitchen. Later in the party we all played a few games and my ex came and sat next to me. We laughed and talked a little bit about what we had been doing. I think I caught him looking my way several times when he thought I wasn't looking. There really wasn't any flirting or talking about "old times." When I got ready to go he decided to leave at the same time so he walked me to my car. He hugged me and said it was good to see me. I couldn't let him go so I asked him if he wanted to sit inside the car with me and chat a while so he got in. We just made small talk and then he kissed me. It was a very passionate kiss, too! He told me to call him sometime but I told him no he should call me especially if he wanted to go to a this particular place we use to go to together.

Am I reading too much into this? Do you think he really wants me to call him or was he just being nice? Do you think it would be ok for me to wait several days and then contact him to see if he wanted to get a drink or go to dinner? I know he doesn't want the serious relationship we had before but I miss being with him and would like to date.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 12-11-2011 - 3:32pm

Justme, here's a link to what appears to be the demise of your relationship http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Understanding-Men/What-has-this-become/td-p/118381657

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Registered: 06-08-2008
Thu, 12-15-2011 - 2:38pm

You told him to call you and that's where you should leave it.