Mixed Messages?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-25-2007
Mixed Messages?
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Tue, 05-24-2011 - 9:06pm

Hey everyone. I need some advice. I may be overthinking everything and need a fresh perspective.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 1:12am

Hi Lostinreality.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2008
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 2:16am

theres nothing wrong here....why are you in such a hurry its only been a month. I dont see any mixed messages other than you want to move it forward...he not into public displays of affection..doesnt mean he doesnt like you it just means hes private about being affectionate...you need to slow up relax enjoy...hes nice to you what more do you need

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 05-25-2011 - 11:07am

I think after knowing each other for only a month and seeing each other 1-2 times a week (so maybe that's like 6 dates total?) is way too early to be looking for something serious--there is no way you could know after this time whether you are meant for one another or not. I think this is a big mistake that people make in a relationship, trying to rush into something (and I have been there myself) when there is really no reason to hurry--keep dating and if you get to know each other & like each other more, things will develop naturally w/o any pressure.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2008
Thu, 05-26-2011 - 12:03am

Well, I'm kind of on the fence here.. my feeling is that he's not all that interested, esp. given since you are the ones making the weekend plans!

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Registered: 12-25-2007
Mon, 06-06-2011 - 8:30am

Thanks for all of your responses! Sadly my internet was done for a while and couldn't get back on until late yesterday.