Mixed messages from this guy
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Mixed messages from this guy
| Wed, 03-17-2010 - 3:17pm |
I need some help...
I've been dating this guy since mid-December.
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runsmiles, I agree that when a guy is into you, he will move mountains to see you. But even if he is into you but just doesn't want much time with you, the relationship isn't suiting YOU.
Remember that this early period of dating is about getting to know each other. And it's about recognising if that person is the type we want to be with.
This guy either isn't into you...or wants lots of time alone. And he does sound a bit cranky and moody!! Either way, it's not what YOU want in a relationship. So, move on before you become emotionally invested.
Perhaps he's a bit too sure of himself. I'd be tempted to go in the opposite direction and turn
I actually did that about 2 weeks ago.
Regarding him not making enough time to spend with you or not inviting you to his place etc., there could be many reasons to explain this behaviour.
Sadly, he's not that into you.
I dated a guy like that awhile back and his words did not match his actions.
NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No N
My take on it is that you might do much better with him if you stepped back. For one thing, it sounded like he was annoyed when you texted him about why did he ignore you the next day after you had had such a good time, like maybe he thought it was too clingy or demanding or something like that.
I 10000% agree with every single thing you've written in this post.
It is really important for you to clearly understand and balance his life commitments, obligations and priorities with your - "if a guy likes me, he will move mountains to see me, talk to me, etc..." expectations.
Thank you all for your advice.
This is just my opinion, for whatever it's worth:
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