Moved too fast for him?
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|Tue, 03-02-2010 - 11:51am|
What should I do? Just stay away from him for awhile?
I Finally went out with someone i've been establishing a friendship and flirting with for about 9 months. At the time he had a girlfriend, so although the chemistry was there we just kept things friendly. They broke up about 5 months ago and he finally asked me out in January. We went out and had a great time, and slept together (!). I know it happened too soon, we both knew it, but i wasn't surprised.
So last week on Valentines Day, we ordered dinner at my place and hung out. I expected him to spend the night, but he said he would be going home. He told me had recently ended a 4 year relationship, that was completely over, but he wants us to just take it slow. We talked about some other things, the connection we feel with each other, and how we both were shocked by the chemistry. I took the conversation as bad....i mean, i felt rejected.
He had to pick something up at my house the next day and told me how cute i looked in my "at home" clothes and glasses and about a band he wanted me to go see with him the next night. I just looked at him confused like is that going slow, seeing each other 3 nights in a row?"
Then Thursday I went to his Facebook page and saw he added his exgirlfriend to his friend list. Talk about freaking out! But i've calmed down a bit now.. I went to pick something up where he works and he looked completely happy to see me, told me i looked cute again and whatnot. I just don't know~ He's on the rebound i guess.