My boyfriend wants space

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Registered: 01-21-2007
My boyfriend wants space
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Tue, 02-15-2011 - 1:11pm

My boyfriend broke up with me but says there is no one else. He just wants space. I didnt do anything and we havent had a fight for like weeks now. I notice he has been a little distant towards me for the past weeks though. I usually sleep over at his house on the weekends and two days durring the week. Im wondering if he is bored of the relationship. I asked him and he said no. He also says he still loves me, that he just wants space. And that in the futcher, he may want to date me again. We werent having much sex, I dont know if this may have something to do with it. Were still friends, but I find it weird. Just out of the blue. He told me he keeps things bottled up inside. He didnt know how to tell me this straight out. We been together for four years so. Why would he just end thingsÉ

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 3:49pm

Hi Babydiva, this wasn't at all out of the blue.

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Registered: 11-06-2008
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 8:56pm

"Why would he just end thingsÉ"

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Registered: 12-05-2010
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 2:29am
babydiva2007 wrote:

My boyfriend broke up with me but says there is no one else. He just wants space. I didnt do anything and we havent had a fight for like weeks now. I notice he has been a little distant towards me for the past weeks though..... And that in the futcher, he may want to date me again. We werent having much sex.... Just out of the blue.

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Registered: 01-21-2007
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 8:37pm
Hey! Thanks for the replyÉ But were ok now, it was all a misunderstanding.
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Registered: 01-21-2007
Wed, 02-16-2011 - 8:42pm
Hi! Ya, Um Im not sure what my nickname has to do with this. Im not a diva, I just like the name.
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Registered: 12-05-2010
Thu, 02-17-2011 - 12:56am
babydiva2007 wrote:
Hey! Thanks for the replyÉ But were ok now, it was all a misunderstanding.

Something was clearly troubling him. You still need to get him to speak up. Otherwise, resentments will continue to build, but not be handled right. Then, there will be a point of no return for your relationship.