My husband is still in love with his ex
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|Wed, 03-31-2010 - 2:16pm|
I am 29 and married my husband 3yrs ago after 4 years of dating and i am so happy, my husband is 30.He has known this certain female friend of his for 18yrs and she is 26 and she is also now my friend but i feel very intimidated by her, they have a load of mutual friends, she is so beautiful looking and almost all my husbands friends say they have a thing for her. I've always got little hints that he had feelings for her when we dated. My husband confessed to me 2 weeks ago that they dated in her teens and that he was her first sexual partner, but she wanted to keep their relationship quiet, but she broke up with him to traveled the world with some friends. She has moved back & i catch my hubby staring,all eyes on her or when she says anything he looks at her with love in his eyes, its like he is over the moon shes back. When i talk about her he gets very aggravated about it & the other day when he was drinking i asked him if he wanted her, he told me it hurt like hell when she left and he missed her like crazy. My MIL adores her and she is such a outgoing person and my husband never lets anyone bad mouth her. She is a dance teacher and if she is dancing with family or friends at a get together my husband just stands or sits there watching her and always has a certain look in his eye and he has a certain smile just for her that i never see when he looks at anyone else,she can be flirty at times and had a flirty smile & look at him. He barely touches me anymore, when his friend asked him what he wanted for his 30th he 'joked' he wanted a marriage and f*ck fest with her. When we all went out for dinner she was in a short dress & i was surprised my hubby could control himself, he kept smiling at her and walking next to her, when she would walk past he would check out her ***, then 'messing' he throw her over hid shoulder and ran off. When we had sex that night i was convinced he was thinking about her. She's so nice to me which makes it hard for me to really hate her. My hubby got very drunk over the weekend and i overheard him say to his friends that 'he may get a divorce',then i heard his best friend say to him that my hubby genuinely wants to be with his ex. Any advice on how i deal with this?