Need a little advice from you men
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|Fri, 09-03-2010 - 10:17am|
I have posted in the relationship problems before and women tend to side with me....although I am not really getting the "mens" perspective.
My husband and I separated last March. He moved out the day after our daughters birthday into an apartment. The last two months we have been getting along very well. Although he still has his apartment, which I know is a back up plan in case we do not work it out.
Last week we ended up getting into an argument. (we initially separated because he cheated on me) He has worked very hard for me to trust him. He tells me where he's going, who hes talking to and etc. I got a little irritated last week because his phone is always buzzing with text messages. (He keeps his phone out now when before he would hide it) But at the same time I don't want to be snooping all the time. Anywho...he told me he just wants me to trust him and that he knows he screwed up and he keeps trying and it doesn't seem like I trust him. I do mostly but I am still afraid of if something is going on then I will not know about it or find out.
I guess what I am looking for is suggestions. When hes in the shower is when I would have to look in his phone. If I ask him for his phone he will give it to me but then theres all this tension. Then at the same time I dont want to have to snoop.
I hope this post made sense.
Oh I also forgot...he works nights. And I run a daycare during the day. I understand it is difficult for him to sleep because of the kids at the house. But somedays he will go back to his apartment after work. I know he needs sleep but I can't help to think he wont be able to do that if and when ends his lease. Thanks!~!!