Need an outside perspective

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Registered: 03-19-2010
Need an outside perspective
Tue, 03-23-2010 - 8:42pm

I am very confused right now and just need an outside

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 03-23-2010 - 9:58pm

Try not to over-think it. You're coming up with all sorts of scenarios but only one person knows exactly what the real deal is - and that's him.

Ask him about the other night and arriving with no "overnight" gear. What does he normally bring with him? Does he have enough stuff at your place now to get him by without bringing more stuff? Did he really HAVE to bring stuff to stay the night? Why are you assuming that he wouldn't stay the night just because he doesn't bring "stuff"? Maybe he had a reason for going home that night?

You need to be discussing this with him, not us. Even a comment like "Where's your gear? Are you not staying tonight?" would have been a simple thing to ask and would have solved all your questions there and then, painlessly.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 03-24-2010 - 7:04am

The only person that knows what's going on in his mind is him. Why not just ask him? You've only been seeing each other a few months, maybe he had other committments he had to attend to.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 03-26-2010 - 2:22pm

Definitely you should be asking him.

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