No contact rule....
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|Tue, 02-11-2014 - 4:19pm|
He said he needed space. I really do not think there's someone else in the picture. He's a widower of just over a year & is definitely having a hard time. I think that is what he means.
Along w/needing space, he wasnt cutting it off with me, he made it clear - just said we needed to go much slower.
It's been a month of no contact now. I do have a stubborn streak, as does he, so I swear I will not give in to contact him, unless he contacts me & then Im not sure how to handle it. Have the feeling it'll be a text, but, who knows, it might be a phonecall, in which case, Im not sure if I will pick up.
Wondering what do guys think re: no contact?...after a month. He probably totally has expected that Ive moved on. I am moving on, but still keep an ear out for him.
Would the tables be turning, actually, and the fact that I wont contact him - sorta give me the more control? Might he be a little peeved that Ive not contacted him?
Do you think he'll come back? ... esp given that he wasnt rejecting me - just wanting to go much slower (knowing I would date others - not sure about him). I do know the loss of his wife is making it VERY hard for him, but....
I dont know - guess I want a guy's opinion, altho I guess I can never know for sure what he's thinking, nor what will happen.