I still hang out with my ex boyfriend.
How do you expect to move on when you can't let go of an ex boyfriend?
He's your ex, he's not your husband, not even your boyfriend, what he does with his life isn't any of your business.
I've thought about it and since I am using him, sleeping over his house, eating his food and using his entertainments, I might as well get use to seeing his flaws.
I do have a FWB other than my ex.
The first thing is why are you down on yourself? Are you afraid of learning to move up in the social world? Sometime people over identify with their old environment and sabotage the new opportunities.
>>> I want a guy like the other FWB but don't think I am educated or prestige enough for a guy like that. So I am lucky he is even my best friend and FWB. <<<<< Is your own look at your self so inferior? Why? Class can be learned (pretty woman(the movie) hired someone to teach her the mannerism of the upper classes) You can too. Education? What kind do you want? Can you read? Can you read magazines like Vogue,Ocean Drive,Vanity Fair,EllE to brush up on who these people are and what they do not to mention fortune,us news and world reports etc. Formal education is good but if you cannot do it then visit the school go to the bookstore and see what they are reading for classes that interest you. There are executive etiquette books to learn how to set a formal
Sex it takes time to learn each other's bodies. Praise works wonders training males to be great lovers. It has to be subtle and always build confidence!!!! Yes, you may have to leave some things behind. Growth does that.Good luck.
I don't mind being called immature, because I can see some of that in me sometimes.
I appreciate all the advice.