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Registered: 12-14-2008
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Sun, 08-01-2010 - 2:44pm

I still hang out with my ex boyfriend.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 2:54pm

How do you expect to move on when you can't let go of an ex boyfriend?


He's your ex, he's not your husband, not even your boyfriend, what he does with his life isn't any of your business.


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Registered: 12-14-2008
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 2:57pm

I've thought about it and since I am using him, sleeping over his house, eating his food and using his entertainments, I might as well get use to seeing his flaws.

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Registered: 12-14-2008
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 3:00pm
You are right.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 3:06pm
You have a good FWB no sense letting that go. But as my experience has shown one can get lazy and not prowl for a new bf/BD/FWB.
Usually men orgasm faster than women but there are exceptions. Men are visual (as are women) we are hunters notice our eyes face forward no like a deer whose eyes are on the side.
You can have more than one sex buddy. That just depends on you.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2008
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 3:17pm

I do have a FWB other than my ex.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 7:41pm

The first thing is why are you down on yourself? Are you afraid of learning to move up in the social world? Sometime people over identify with their old environment and sabotage the new opportunities.

>>> I want a guy like the other FWB but don't think I am educated or prestige enough for a guy like that. So I am lucky he is even my best friend and FWB. <<<<<
Is your own look at your self so inferior? Why? Class can be learned (pretty woman(the movie) hired someone to teach her the mannerism of the upper classes) You can too. Education? What kind do you want? Can you read? Can you read magazines like Vogue,Ocean Drive,Vanity Fair,EllE to brush up on who these people are and what they do not to mention fortune,us news and world reports etc. Formal education is good but if you cannot do it then visit the school go to the bookstore and see what they are reading for classes that interest you.
There are executive etiquette books to learn how to set a formal

Sex it takes time to learn each other's bodies. Praise works wonders training males to be great lovers. It has to be subtle and always build confidence!!!!
Yes, you may have to leave some things behind. Growth does that.
Good luck.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2009
Sun, 08-01-2010 - 10:32pm
WOW.............................your 25???? You sound EXTREMELY immature................
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2008
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 12:40am

I don't mind being called immature, because I can see some of that in me sometimes.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2009
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 10:48am
Very sorry but this is a truly pointless post about a non-situation. The man's your ex. How is it any business of yours what he does or doesn't do with his life? Also, hanging out with him
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2008
Mon, 08-02-2010 - 10:55am

I appreciate all the advice.

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