Question about my weird guy friend

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Registered: 07-13-2011
Question about my weird guy friend
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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 10:11pm

So I was talking to this guy after class for a loooooong time. We arent really close friends but we

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 07-13-2011 - 11:16pm

While I agree that he's not making the best choices, I don't agree that this is a rare thing to happen.

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Registered: 06-19-2009
Fri, 07-15-2011 - 9:37am
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 07-18-2011 - 10:54am

I bet his fiancee would considering it cheating to have sex w/ another woman.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 07-25-2011 - 4:13pm

I hate to say this, but I was involved with a guy like this. He didn't consider it "cheating" for no (good) reason other than the plain and simple fact that he didn't want to consider it "cheating".

It was cheating. Obviously. Eventually the guy manned up and told his wife what happened, but still.

Men can love their wife, fiancée, girlfriend, whatever and still cheat. It's really not rare. This guy still loved his wife, I'm sure, but he wanted more and just allowed it to happen without thinking about it too much. Men don't always cheat because they do not love someone... Sometimes they cheat because the opportunity is there and they can't/won't resist the temptation.

It takes a lot of denial in order for this guy to carry on the way he is.