Real advice please... Ro

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Real advice please... Ro
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Wed, 07-25-2012 - 9:33pm
I met this guy we will call him, "bill" about a year and a half ago. I fell hard for him, I still till this day don't know why... But I fell head over heels. We slept together for a year intermittently, but never dated... He was always kind of an ass to me. I allowed the behavior and kept going back even though he made it clear he didnt want a relationship. About six months ago I ran into him out one night, and to my surprise he was with his new "girlfriend", we all have a lot of mutual friends and when I was introduced to her I was very polite. I acted like I was having a good time with my friends and just acted as if I didn't know who he was. All of a sudden this new girl of his storms off and come to find out she was mad that he was starring over at me ( which he was) and I still ignored the situation even after he stayed after she left is a fit. I didn't see him for months and there had been zero contact until this weekend. This weekend I ran into him out and he starred at me as usual ... I ignored him as usual. At the end if the night i was in the parking lot and he was walking to his car. He looked over and was attempting to walk over to me and I flipped him off and drove off. I of course felt bad so I sent him a text , " didn't mean to be so rude, I was caught off guard" he replied immediately saying, " I hope your doing well , I have always thought very highly of you".... Uhhhh why did he say that? Now he's back on my mind& how could he think so highly of me when he treated me like crap. Why do I care? Why can't I get over someone that was never mine? I have never felt this way about someone? A year and still not over him., wtf this isnt like me :smileysad:
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Fri, 07-27-2012 - 5:29am

>> Uhhhh why did he say that? Now he's back on my mind& how could he think so highly of me when he treated me like crap.<<

Perhaps he's an ass to everyone - even those people who he does think highly of.