Really Need Advise

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-06-2010
Really Need Advise
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Sat, 04-17-2010 - 3:16pm

My boyfriend has been giving me the cold shoulder since we had a discussion about moving in together a few days ago. I called a friend (who I once dated) and talked to him about it, HE IS JUST A FRIEND!! Well, last night while at my bf's house the friend sent me a text now my bf thinks I'm cheating on him. I was ready to move to the next step in our relationship now he wants to take a step back & not be so serious. I love him & he says he loves me but dont want trust issues. While I understand that, I have forgiven him for several things that have really hurt me. To make matters worse my daughter is 14 & is really attached to him. He's the 1st man "father figure" she has cared for since her dad died. He told me last night he just doesn't think he's ready to raise another teenager since his daughter just turned 18.. I dont know what to do. I love him & am begging him to forgive me & lets b a family like he says he wanted, BUT now he doesn't trust me & wants to spend LESS time with me.


I'm so hurt & so is my daughter..

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2010
Sat, 04-17-2010 - 6:52pm

I wondered if he has

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 04-17-2010 - 8:30pm

You said you're ready to take this relationship to the next level but he wants to take a step back.

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