Relationship phobia

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2011
Relationship phobia
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Tue, 11-01-2011 - 3:24pm

I met this guy about three years ago, He said he was fascinated by my accent called me all the time no dates but he would always invite me to his house to hang out when I did decide to take him up on it, I asked him how come he never wants to go out he said he preferred to sit at the house, anyway couple times I did call and he would tell me he was at a friends house hanging and one person I talked to told me that he never really went out, he was kind of a loner.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 4:24pm

You would seriously consider being w/ a man who doesn't want to take you anywhere (he apparently goes out of the house to hang out w/ his friends) but just wants you around to have sex, then when he's done--he doesn't even hold you or talk to you, he just leaves the room--that doesn't sound very satisfying to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2009
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 4:40pm

"Relationship phobia" and "scared of a relationship" are more acceptable ways of saying "doesn't want a relationship"

You may like this guy but you probably have to accept that you're not going to have a relationship with him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2011
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 7:35pm