Sex on the first date
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|Mon, 04-19-2010 - 10:16pm|
I know that this question has been asked far too many times, but I am completely lost when it comes to men.
I am a 42-year-old single woman. I gave up on mes many years ago because of one too many relationships gone bad and have chosen to focus on my career instead.
The other day at a conference, I met a truly wonderful man. We had drinks, hit it off, and he then insisted that he wanted to see me again later that evening. I got his drift, but I am the least bit interested in a one night stand and to become a f*** buddy--I even told him this. I did not meet him later nor did I call him that evening. I did, however, call him the morning after and explained to him, once again, that I had far too many errands to run that evening, as I had to be at the airport early in the morning. He was sweet and kind and wished me a good flight home. He also said that he looked forward to seeing me again (before our yearly conference) and had my number and was going to call.
What does all this mean? Did I ruin the possibility of a friendship, in the short term, and a relationship, in the long term. Does he think that I am a tease? Will he call? Should I call him? Should I make a point of meeting him again?
All in all, he is a truly magnificent man. I am in constant contact with the public and never came across anyone like him; that is, someone with whom I would be willing to take another chance at love.
Edited 4/19/2010 10:33 pm ET by jasz_gal
Edited 4/19/2010 10:38 pm ET by jasz_gal