Should I call???
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Should I call???
| Sat, 01-22-2011 - 5:19pm |
So there was this guy from my office building, who's 7 years younger than me. I am 33, he's 26.
Initially I didn;t notice him, then he started flirting with me, seemed interested
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"he had 'falled asleep'"
You sure this guy is 26 and not... three?
JK :P
Anyway, no, I do not think you should call. There is never an explanation that makes any difference beyond "if he really wanted you, things would be different". He isn't that into you. Initiating contact with someone who can't be bothered will make you look and feel like a fool. There are lots of phone calls I wish I could take back! You could be right about his ex, that he had a good time on the date but isn't really interested in pursuing one woman for a relationship right now. Any way you slice it, if he were "that into you", he would show you. He wouldn't be making excuses and hiding from you.
You should move on.
hi in my opinion i would step back and give him some time. it seems as though hes been nice enough to give you a response about why he's seemed to disappear a couple of times.
however, it would be best to step back a bit and give him time to think.
remember it seems like you are only dating the guy....which means you should be seeing others and so should he.
you do not need a proper explanation and he does not owe you won.....unless he used the word promise or something to that effect in your conversation.
BOL!
keep us posted
dont call.....if he wants to talk he will call.
So I saw him at work and we were able to talk.
He said that he started to doubt whether I really liked him, thought I was real accomplished and would want a guy that was 'better' than him.
That really surprised me though but I am thinking it also has to do with his ex dumping him for a guy that made more money.
He also admitted that he felt he was vulnerable to getting hurt.
So I guess I'll definitely not try to pressure him and see how it goes!
glad to hear that....
'..I suspect he hasn't gotten over his ex, as he mentioned