should i call it quits?
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|Sat, 04-24-2010 - 1:37am|
i have posted on here several times about this guy i have been (seeing) and im still confused. its been 2 months since we met and he still hasnt said if he wants a relationship or if he wants anything to come out of this.
we hang out all the time usually at his house or sometimes we go out and do things, we text eachother throughout the day and he can be so nice and sweet to me but other times he just blows me off, like for example today he didnt text me at all so i texted him asking what he was doing tonight and he said he was going to the bar with his freinds and thats all he said and i still havent heard from him and he usually will invite me to go with.
whenever i ask him how he feels about me or what he wants he just tells me he really likes me and he likes hanging out with me, sleeping with me, talking to me and he likes it when i stay the night with him even though i usually leave before he wakes up. he also has told me that he dosent understand me so when i asked why he dosent he said cause i dont no what i want even though i have told him before that i really like him and wanted to try and start something a little more serious with him but apperenlty he dosent remember that. does it usually take a guy this long to decide if he wants to be with someone or am i just being used and played? its like its hot and cold with this guy and i have been honost with him and i tell him all the time how i feel about him. im nice to him i pay for alot of things like food and stuff, i text him good morning and have a good day at work almost everyday. whenever he has a bad day i will sit and talk to him about it and try to help him the best i can. if his back or legs hurt from working i will give him a back rub. its like im putting my heart and feelings out there for him and sometimes its like he dosent care. so im woundering if i should just call it quits and move on or if i should wait and see if he comes around? any advice would be good thanks