Should I feel guilty here?

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Registered: 11-01-2007
Should I feel guilty here?
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Thu, 09-23-2010 - 9:30am

My ex emailed me twice after us not speaking for 6 months. I had changed my phone #, he left 2 notes for me on my porch, i ignored. He was a jerk. Basically used me for sex when he felt like it, broke plans with me, admitted that he slept with other people (even though he claims we werent talking) I couldnt take it anymore. It was difficult but i ended things. On monday (after the 6 months of no contact), he emailed me again telling me he thinks of me often, has tried to let me go but cant, i must mean something special to him, feels humility and knows he wasnt always nice to me. We talked back and forth a bit, i didnt say much, then agreed to talk to him. Things did not go as they should have. Originally we were goign to go out wednesday, but he came over Tuesday at 10pm.

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Registered: 09-06-2010
Thu, 09-23-2010 - 5:36pm
Thank you. ;o)




Edited 10/2/2010 10:26 pm ET by darling.carly
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Registered: 11-01-2007
Fri, 09-24-2010 - 9:20am
ok i didnt necessarily literally mean flowers. I just meant more effort than he did. He gave up on 'us' after a day! I agree, i he doesnt want me. So what'd he come back for? I guess just to see if he could...stupid me.

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