Find a Conversation
|Fri, 01-28-2011 - 10:00pm|
I wrote about this guy on another board, but I'm going to post here too. I started talking to a guy I went to high school with a few months ago on Facebook. We talked for a while and I asked him to come to my house and watch a movie. We had a good time, but I wasn't sure if he was interested or not because we haven't really talked a lot since then and he hasn't said anything about hanging out again. I would really like to because he seems like a really sweet guy. I'm just not sure how to read shy guys, I'm normally the shy one, so this is different for me.
I feel like I am more outgoing than I used to be, but I can already see a problem if we started dating because neither one of us would make a move, and I don't want to be the one to have to initiate all of the conversations, etc.
Today at work, while training a girl, I realized that her husaband is really good friends with this guy. Her husband graduated with me and this other guy. She said she would talk to her husband and see what he thought about him. She told me this evening that he has never had a girlfriend, or even kissed anyone so that may have been why he was uncomfortable when we watched a movie together. Her husband said that he had mentioned me to him, so that seems like a good sign, but I feel like I always have to initiate the conversation and I don't like that because I don't know if he is interested or not.
She told me that I should ask him out to a movie, that maybe that would help him be less uncomfortable because we wouldn't be at my house. She is very excited about it becuase she has been trying to set him up for a long time. I still wonder though if he is truly interested. Wouldn't he attempt to talk to me more if he was? I hate being confused and wondering if people like to talk to me. He will talk to me if I talk to him, but I feel like he is just doing it to be nice since I started the conversation. He is a very nice guy. I would feel that he wasn't interested at all except for the fact that this girl's husband said that he mentioned me.. I'm just not sure what to think. Should I waste my time asking him out again or should i wait and see how it goes and if he ever starts a conversation or starts talking to me. By the way we are both around 23. I have only been in one relationship, and it wasn't necessarily a good one. And I've only kissed two people ever so it's not like I'm much more experienced than him..