Shy but very intrested!

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Registered: 07-27-2011
Shy but very intrested!
Wed, 07-27-2011 - 12:48am
So heres my story.

We've been married for 9 yrs. the last 4 have been horrible. We don't get along at all. But try to keep it together for the kids. In the house we live as normal as possible, outside the house we go to work. We decided that if we wanted to have friends outside our marriage that was fine but we could never bring anyone home. I've never been intrested in that untill now.
They're is a guy that is a few years older then myself that moved into the house beside my parents, he's divorced, has 3 kids, we talk once and a while. Latley when Im at my parents he comes outside and does yard work, have a smoke etc. So Ive taken some intrest in him. From small talk with him I think he would be a great guy to hang out with. Im not looking for anything sexual but I think that he can share his experience with me since Im heading down the same road as he did.
Im very shy and Im not sure how to ask him if he would like to hang out with me and shoot the S%^T!!!
I was going to go and chat with the neighbour today but when I turned around he was gone. Should I put a note on his door?
Any advise that anyone has I would appreicate it. Please don't tell me to get a divorce, we are.
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Wed, 07-27-2011 - 7:38pm

Countrymusicgal, I'm not sure I really understand.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 08-08-2011 - 6:24pm
If your looking for help in your marriage, another man to talk with is not the answer. Find a counselor/therapist or support group.