So what does all this mean and how should I feel about it?

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Registered: 01-22-2012
So what does all this mean and how should I feel about it?
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Wed, 02-01-2012 - 1:07am

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Registered: 10-29-2006
Are you kidding me? He's got a girlfriend--of course, he shouldn't be talking to you like that! Whatsmore, unless you like being nothing more than a tool for masturbation, you shouldn't be taking to him at ALL! Look, this guy is not your friend. That title denotes respect, and it is apparent that he has none for you & certainly doesn't deserve yours.
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Registered: 05-18-2009

He has a girlfriend but is talking to you about masturnating to you.

Consider this a great example of how he treats relationships in general. When you really think about it, what's there to "like" about such a person? Why isn't this actually a gigantic turnoff?

"I should just take all this as his horny lustful self speaking and him just thinking about things?

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Registered: 01-25-2010

Hi

All though a "one last time is tempting moving means your mind and gonads need to be pointed in the direction of new conquests.

chaika

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Registered: 01-22-2012

xxxs,

I think you give good replies. I think most people would reply that he is a scum of the earth. I am not saying he is some awesome person but I don't think people are that black and white. You also focus on me and what I should do to make myself better.

We seem to have a cycle of this -- talking and agreeing we should be friends and nothing more, then a few weeks pass and we do some kissing and fooling around, then we go back to feeling bad about it, apologizing, arguing.... and then it starts again. I think it is like an urge...knowing we can't go all the way, but wanting to get a little feel out of it.

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Registered: 01-25-2010

"I wonder if biology has anything to do with it. I'm not joking. It's like clockwork. I think there some natural

chaika

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Registered: 01-22-2012
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!