super confused

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Registered: 03-29-2010
super confused
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Mon, 03-29-2010 - 8:34pm

I have never been good at decoding guys know whethere someone was interested in me or not. I end a long long time relationship about six months ago and have finally allowed myself to maybe get back into the swing of things.


A guy a work with is super sweet and friendly, seems like he maybe interested in me. He told me tonight that he thought I was beautiful and I promptly turned beet red. He has also told me that my hair is what heaven must smell like. lol. Last weekend has we were leaving work he came up and but his arms around my waist. Tonight he went as far as running his finger down the side of my neck.


Here is where the problem lies. We have been doing this flirty thing I guess you could call it for almost two weeks. and I think that I do like him. But he has not made a move yet he has made comments about needing to ask me or we should do something together but has yet to do it.


Am I wasting my time here. Should I just go for it make a move myself or just sit back and wait. Or should I just give up all together and move on.

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Registered: 01-02-2010
In reply to: lpn0830
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 10:00pm
I don't think I'd do anything, just go with it an enjoy, it sounds like it's escalating quickly as is.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: lpn0830
Tue, 03-30-2010 - 7:47am
I wouldn't do anything at the moment. Take things slow and enjoy the fun in flirting. Though next time he mentions getting together, ask what he had in mind. Or you could suggest taking in a movie or grabbing a bite to eat after work. Not a date, just as friends. Both pay your own way and just get to know each other and see where it goes from there.

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Registered: 09-23-2009
In reply to: lpn0830
Tue, 03-30-2010 - 11:43am

Hi there,


I tend to be a bit cautious