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|Tue, 03-30-2010 - 12:50am|
He is currently unemployed due to lay off and it is a long distance relationship. I fly out to stay with him for a week. I pay for my ticket but tell him I won't have any extra spending money...he says he understands this.
I get there. Every morning he makes me an elaborate breakfast and a fantastic dinner every night. He's good to me. Treats me like a princess. We do things that don't cost alot of money and I'm happy with that.
He decides to build a shed and I am happy to help, but he runs out of material and we go "to look at supplies" and somehow I end up spending $50.00, I'm not complaining yet....
Now time for me to get back to airport that's an hour and half away. He says he has no gas money! I end up putting $40.00 in so I can get home! 2 days later he's at the bar. He calls me and it's obvious he's had a few beers(where did the $$ come from for the beer??).
I'm trying to decide if he's a jerk, or should I give him a break?