Text message - confused?!

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Registered: 06-14-2006
Text message - confused?!
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 2:58am


I'm just trying to make sense of a simple text.

I have know this guy for about 1 yr, we cross paths at work (large company) once in a while, participate in some volunteer stuff once a year and have mutual friends.

The other night (Friday), he asked me to sushi - we went, had a great time and as he got out of my car (his truck is in the shop) he said 'give me a call later in the week if you want to hang out'.

I went against my "dating with out drama advice" with the reassurance of a good friend and texted later the following evening (Saturday) to say 'had a good time last night, hope you have a great weekend'.

I didn't hear back from him Saturday evening, but got a text tonight (Sunday) say "sorry I didn't respond last night, was working and didn't get home till almost 12pm. Glad you had a good time."

Ok - I'm not sure of what to make of this.. I thought he may have mentioned he had a good time too .. but he didn't?

Next question - do I call him later in the week to see if he wants to get together again? and just a side note.. I thought the text would have been a type of 'encouragement' for being interested.. am I wrong?

Thanks in advance for the advice!

I'm quite confused!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2010
Mon, 03-29-2010 - 5:21am
I'm not a guy but I think it might just be too early to tell. I wouldn't call or text him any more. I think he knows you're interested in him and will offer another date or not according to his interest in you. Just my opinion.