Totally Clueless

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Registered: 08-30-2005
Totally Clueless
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Tue, 09-21-2010 - 7:57pm

Here's the story, just recently I've started hanging out with a guy friend that I haven't really talked to for 7 years. He lives out of state and I decided to take a friendly trip to visit him. While I was there the first day it was more like two friends catching up. He was such the gentleman though; opening doors, paying for meals, throwing trash away etc. He also gave up his room to me so he could sleep in the guest room. The second day I noticed he's really a touchy, feely kind of guy. He would put his hands on my waist or around my neck and I think he's cute so I didn't think much of it. That night we ended up staying in the same room because more people stayed over. The next morning, he shocked me by cuddling with me. I didn't know what to do! I was like a stone, like is this really happening. We stayed in bed all morning watching tv. I even noticed him staring at me without letting him know that I saw him. Honestly, I think we both could have stayed in bed all day without any problems and comfortable with each other. When I was leaving, he walked me to my car and I didn't really look at him in the eyes because I didn't want to be caught off guard if he tried to kiss me or something. I'm supposed to see him again in November.



My question is do you think he likes me? If so, what should I do next? I don't know if he was acting this way because he is into me or if that's just how he is. My one guy says that men don't do things they don't want to do and he did these things because he wanted to. I like him a lot but I don't want to flirt with him if he's really not that into me. Oh and he calls when he says he will :)



Thanks guys

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: shylibra
Wed, 09-22-2010 - 8:46am

I have no idea what he's thinking. But seeing as he lives out of state, do you want a long distance relationship? Maybe he was just looking to get lucky or maybe he does like you. Why don't you want to flirt with him? Just relax and be yourself. Let things take their course. Or you could always just ask him what he's looking for.




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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: shylibra
Wed, 09-22-2010 - 2:52pm
GOOD GRIEF shag him already! Where is your head at? Look what was the relationship supposed to be? From your description you must have come off as an uninterested person. If the is true ans there was not interest let him go.
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Registered: 09-28-2010
In reply to: shylibra
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 8:44pm

He is into you. Let nature take it's course. Don't rush and don't push away. Let him do what he wants for you. Take things slow as to not ruin a great friendship.