Update: pl give me some advice
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|Sat, 02-20-2010 - 11:42am|
I did meet him on Wed morning. I asked him how things going these days? He said: not that good, cz he missed a few classes at college and also he got a small car accident by hitting somebody's car (just bumper) and has to spent money repair his car, also his car insurance may be increased. Since he was in such a depressed mood that day, I did not talk about "marriage" stuff at all, just told him if he needs help, pl tell me.
The the next day he left his car in the auto repair and called me to walk around (the auto repair shop is not far from where I am living now). I said why not come to my place. So he later came to my place. We talked about school, work, and also the future. We talked about "marriage" generally, and his attitude sounded really into the marriage. Then we went out having lunch together, I asked him when we should talk about our future? He said ys, we should. He then asked where I wanna talk about it, at my place or his place or meet in a big store not far from my place. I was so disappointed at that moment, saying "you wanna talk about such serious matter in a store?" Then I stood up and walked outside the restaurant. He followed me immediately and hug me tightly, b4 he left, he kissed me and said see you tomorrow.
On Friday we met again, and talked, walked around together. At first it was happy, yet then I still told him: we finally have to face the topic and talk about our future, right? or else, even if we are physically together, we are not really happy. He agreed with me.
Since he will have some tests at college next week, I told him I'd like to give him additional time till the end of next week, and no matter what the result is, we have to make all clear.
Honestly, I can feel he is trying to escape the topic when we met , although it was his idea of 11-day no contact no meet. On the other hand, he obviously does not want to break up with me. Cases like are common, and I have some female friends who came across the similar situation. I know clearly what the purpose of such kind of guys. No matter whether my bf is one of those kind of guys, and no matte whether he is serious about talking about it with me at the end of next week, I will definitely make my decision the end of next week!