USA guys, trophy wives, and circumcision
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| Sun, 08-06-2006 - 7:58pm |
This board has a great name, because it sums up something I've figured out recently. I want to get this of my chest amd see if any other women out there agree with me.
My story is this - I'm a professional, high-earning female in her mid thirties.
My problem is this - I just can't get a guy. It's not because I work too hard to meet anyone - I meet plenty of professional, high-earning, good-looking guys, about my age, all the time.
The problem is this:- they are all dating, married to, or lusting after, TROPHY WIVES - blonde airheads with huge tits, a perfect ass, and not a day older than 21.
Some of them have even divorced a wife or two already, especially after they've had babies. They even joke about how it's 'time to trade her in for a younger model'.
Why are American men like this?
I go to Europe a lot on business, and I meet loads of middle-aged guys who clearly still adore their wives, who happily date women their own age, and who don't seem to care a damn for breast implants and nose-jobs. (If you go on holiday in the south of france, you won't see anywhere near the number of boob jobs that you get in california or florida.)
Then I realised something - nearly all american men are circumcised, and nearly all european men are not.
I did some research a while back on circumcision (including looking at the circumcision forum on ivillage!).
Removing the foreskin makes the mans penis massively less sensitive, and makes it much harder for the guy to masturbate.
Some women think this is a good thing - it makes him last longer in bed, and makes him more dependent on a woman for his pleasure (and apparently makes teenaged boys a lot calmer!).
However, I think there is a big drawback to that - it must also make it harder for them to get aroused and get any pleasure.
I think this is why older american guys only go for young girls with big tits - as the guys age they need that visual stimulation to arouse them. Also, if the guy barely feels any sensation as it is, once his wife has had a baby he will probably feel nothing at all!
I'm sorry to be so crude, but I think these men are ditching their wives and going for a 21 year old gym fanatic because they want to feel a tighter p*ssy.
Because 'intact' guys are so much more sensitive, they can still be aroused by an older woman - physically, psychologically, and emotionally.
It's the only explanation I've got for the behaviour I've seen. What do you ladies think?
(as for me, I'm going to the madrid office for 6 months to see if I can get myself a date!!)

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It's a theory. I won't discount it. Since circ started out by Mr. Kellog as a way to stop boys from MB...
Anyway, I have another theory. Mine is about women on the freeway who have to be one car ahead of you and will do anything to do that. I think this behavior is worse in areas of the states where women have less power and control over everything else in their lives. So, they get behind the wheel of a car and play "My P**** is Bigger Than Yours." LOL
Anyone else with theories???
I think it is who you work with (and where you work) Caitlin.
Think about a lawyer that lives in L.A. Then compare that to say an accountant in Nebraska. Those two men have a completely different pool of women. And they need to act a certain way to get someone from that pool. This is not to say that the generalitites of American men versus European men aren't true - I think they are if you take them at just that - generalities. The whole thing about the "ugly American" came from Americans acting ugly in the frist place. But, if you are looking in a silver mine for gold, it ain't gonna happen.
Now, as far as the whole circumcision thing - not to go all TMI on you, but my circumcised equipment gives me great pleasure!
I now work in the agriculture/nursery industry and tend to find the men in true partnership with their wives who have given then 4 babies and worked beside them. Not to say that there aren't jerks and nice guys everywhere but the ratio changes by the superficiality of the industry. Years ago I was in auto finance and every ugly cliche about car salesmen turned out to be true in the majority with a few really, honorable, family men working there beside them. But the good guys were certainly the minority.
Joel, I'm really pleased that your equipment gives you great satisfaction
(I mean that seriously - some of the stuff I read on the internet about circumcision makes me feel really sorry for guys!)
But to be honest - you're right - it was way too much information!!!
Interesting post. In my opinion shallow men have more to do with our warped sense of beauty in this country. We are flooded non-stop with images of unnaturally beautiful women and some men can't separate fantasy from reality. In Europe women are appreciated in all shapes and sizes. In the US women are expected to hide their imperfections. Years ago a friend of mine went to Europe and took a picture of a nude pregnant woman on the beach with her toddler, her and I were the only ones who appreciated it - all other responses were of distaste for a pregnant woman being on the beach nude.
As for the guys needing more visual stimulation as they age - that is incorrect. Studies have shown men are not as easily stimulated as they age and they need more PHYSICAL contact. I think they may go over board on the visual because that is what has always stimualted them in the past.
I have always been looking for a partner. Someone that would work as hard and put as much into the relationship as me. They didn't have to make as much as me or own as much as I did but they had to at least be and remain self sufficient. Or at least be able to hold down the home front if I was bringing home the bacon. Unfortunately it took a very long time to find that. I seemed to either find guys that were intimidated by my success, wanted to be Freddy Freeloader or wanted me to give up everything I ever worked for to rely solely on them (basically give up my self) and not have an independant thought in my fluffy little head.
It's pretty strange that the guy I finally found, that has a great work ethic, shares in co parenting, works with me towards our combined goals and future is 15 years younger than me. He had nothing when we met, just a minimum wage job but has started his own successful business and took on full financial responsibility right after our baby was born because he thought mom being home was the most important thing for his child. At 15 years his senior I break the mold of "trophy" wife. I know all the girls 15 years younger than me are naturally more attractive because they have 15 years less gravity they've dealt with but for whatever reason I'm his "Hottie."
I agree with you that if you aren't finding guys where you have been looking you might want to change where you are doing your "marketing". Actually my partner and I knew each other for a couple of years before he told me he felt the way he did because I wasn't looking in the younger set. But here I am. 5 years and one child later with a "Boy Toy". Me. Someone who wasn't that kind of woman at all.
Actually it was not his youth and beauty that I found attractive it was his personal values. I guess thats where men and women differ. If he had been 20 years older than me I would still be with him because it's what's inside him that really counts to me.
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