want to know but can't ask

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Registered: 05-13-2009
want to know but can't ask
Wed, 07-07-2010 - 2:20pm
So this is a long story but i will give you a shortened version. I was best friends with this guy for 4 years back in my late teens early twenties. Everyone told me that he was mad for me, but he just wasn't what i was looking for..not my type really. he eventually moved lost touch got it touch again years later and thew long distance phone calls started telling each other that we loved each other. Durring that time i met my husband and eventually my husband won over
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Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 07-07-2010 - 3:14pm

Though i wish i could have them both. But i would never do that to my husband. <<<<

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Wed, 07-07-2010 - 5:20pm



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Registered: 07-07-2010
Wed, 07-07-2010 - 11:15pm

In order to cheat on your husband do you have to have sex? I feel that just having romantic feelings for another and continuing with some kind of relationship is cheating. It just might be better for your hubby to know that you banged some ramdom dude behind a restraunt than for him to know that you have had some seriously deep feelings for somone for years.

and whats up with the hubby "won over" love is not a compition. Its a feeling.

you need to close your past and move on. go to that wedding. but if you find that you can not look at dude without wanting to touch dont go. leave him in the past.

and stop cheating on your hubby. that man loves you... thats hard to find