We're in contact everyday

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Registered: 01-10-2006
We're in contact everyday
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Fri, 02-12-2010 - 5:42pm
I met a guy at a family function and for about the past month we've been in contact in one way or another everyday. It's mostly chat or email. We live two hours apart and I went out with him once with some of his friends when he was in the area. He put his arm around me and stayed close to me that entire night. From what I've written, it seems obvious that he is interested, so I'm wondering if anyone has ever had a similar experience and then found out the guy just wanted to be friends. He's a good Christian guy, we're both in our late 20's and looking to settle down soon, so I know he's not just looking for sex like most guys I run into.
http://bunnykidblog.blogspot.com
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Registered: 01-04-2006
Fri, 02-12-2010 - 6:36pm

No one knows what's in his mind.

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Registered: 01-10-2006
Sat, 02-13-2010 - 1:31am
That is true. We've only talked on the phone once. I let him know I'll be home this weekend and want to hang out so we'll see what happens. I'm wondering if I should just straight out ask him because it seems it might be time to give up, but I hate to give up without knowing for sure. Also, when I know I'm at the end of a relationship I get ballsy and say whatever because I know it can't hurt. Unfortunately, I don't think I can be just friends with this guy.
http://bunnykidblog.blogspot.com
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Registered: 01-10-2006
Sun, 02-28-2010 - 10:05am
We went for a hike and I def got a friend vibe. You can read more about it in my blog.
http://bunnykidblog.blogspot.com
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Sun, 02-28-2010 - 2:46pm

I read your blog about the hike and he clearly stated that he likes to be friends first.

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Registered: 01-10-2006
Sun, 02-28-2010 - 5:01pm
Thanks for checking it out. I won't be giving up on him anytime soon--he's way too awesome! But I don't think I could get over him or be happy for him if he finds someone else, so I don't know if just a friendship is an option. I'll give it a few months, and hopefully just enjoy things while they last.
http://bunnykidblog.blogspot.com
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Registered: 12-24-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 6:10am

"Curious but doesn't anyone just pick up the phone anymore and have a conversation with each other"


My question/thought EXACTLY!!!! there is NO personal conection with people anymore. I think using TEXT/IMing/Email as a primary source of contact is horrible!!!!!!!!! If some guy only contacting me through a computer/cellphone text...it would be over!!!

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 7:42am

I'm with you!

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Sun, 03-07-2010 - 1:25pm
He let me know that he is only interested in a friendship. And I decided I can do that.
http://bunnykidblog.blogspot.com