what to do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2003
what to do?
Mon, 04-21-2003 - 9:26am
OK- i posted about a week ago. Basically ended up hooking up with my good friends brother, it's now been two weeks. He hasn't called me, but he doesn't necessarily have my number unless he asks his sister, who clearly knows nothing about the hookup.

I'm not sure how I feel about the guy, but either way I do want to know what that was that happened between us. Should I call him? And, should I tell my friend/his sister what happened? I don't want to screw anything up between the friendship, but I also don't want to share personal information he obviously didn't share with his sister. They are only a year apart, so we have some mutual friends.

Do you think I should just talk to my friend/his sister? Or should I try and talk to him first? Any advice/opinions are appreicated. thank.


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: danisara
Mon, 04-21-2003 - 9:56am
I think you should call him although be prepared for the worst. Why did you hook up with him without an understanding first, given that you knew you wouldn't take it casually, with no expectations? As far as him not having a way to get in touch with you, I don't know any person who would let two weeks go by because he only had one or two ways of learning a phone number - that is what the internet and the telephone book is for. I don't mean to be harsh - but try to keep grounded about this.