what does this mean?

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Registered: 11-07-2009
what does this mean?
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Thu, 08-12-2010 - 7:35pm

I told a former coworker that I have feelings for him and would still like to keep our friendship 'alive' even though we don't work together.

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Registered: 05-18-2009
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 2:38pm

He means "no". As in, no, period.

He's unavailable to you. You can't always get what you want. Stop pursuing him and stop reading into little things he does. He's not available and there are too many other unmarried men to put all your focus on trying to win this one. It isn't going to happen, and you have to accept that. Yes... Unrequited love absolutely SUCKS. But the longer you dwell in it, the longer you prevent yourself from moving on and finding someone who does return your feelings.

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Registered: 02-14-2007
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 7:38pm

I didn't know MM meant married - bad news - BTDT - one on purpose - one not.


I wouldn't even know how to date now - except just be me - God Forbid I had to n- I wouldsn't dop the coy, mysterious woman n- and I would never play games

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 4:57pm

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Registered: 11-07-2009
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 3:52pm

I know its wrong, find love and passion with someone who can give it to you without problems, right?


i get it, this is just something i vent on now, not something that i know should not be pursued.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 2:36pm

There's nothing to be confused about. He's a married man, and he flirts with you. A lot of people do that. He's not interested in a "relationship"



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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 1:32pm

Just so I'm clear on this, this is a married man you used to work with whom you are pursuing and have this debilitating crush on?


I want to be clear before I offer any input.

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 11:47am

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Registered: 11-07-2009
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 11:04am

he has these electric blue eyes that I swear when we use to work together, he would look at me with hungry just like I did to him


he wears a mustache and I love a man with a mustache or beard or goatee so that is also a turn on.

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Registered: 04-10-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 8:28am

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Registered: 11-07-2009
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 7:00am

No, he doesn't call me.

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