What does this mean?

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Registered: 08-30-2003
What does this mean?
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Wed, 09-17-2003 - 6:33pm
Ok here's the story... there's this guy that I'm really into. We've hung out quite a bit but he has yet to make a move. He invited me to his hockey game. His friend was there because she was watching her boyfriend. We started talking and asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told her no. And she told me to go for *Scott* She's like, we've had a couple of heart to hearts and he just really wants a girlfriend. I was like "when did he say that?" She said a few weeks ago. That's when I moved to the same city. Hmmmm. I said that I would totally go out with him but I don't think he would. She's like, "I think he would." So my friends are thinking that he got her to ask me. What do you think?

And then that same night, I was over at my friends house and *Scott* and I had kind of been playing telephone tag all night. Finally at midnight, he's like do you want me to come get you and take you home. It was completely in the opposite direction from where he was and where he had to go. So I thought that was really sweet... but I still don't know for sure if he's interested in me because he has yet to say anything or make a move. From what I've said do you think he's interested? Do you think I should make a move? Advice please! =)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-17-2003 - 7:04pm
Title: Answers....

**"From what I've said do you think he's interested?"**

Yes.

**"Do you think I should make a move?"**

Yes.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Wed, 09-17-2003 - 7:50pm
Make a move! Tell the friend he should ask you out...whatever...you've got all green lights! Good Luck.

Amanda
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Registered: 08-30-2003
Wed, 09-17-2003 - 8:01pm
I would totally ask his friend but she's gone back home. She was only in town for the weekend.

I really want to go up to him and just kiss him or something but I'm so afraid of getting hurt. Would "just a friend" come all the way to pick me up and drive me home? Or do you think that is more of a boyfriend thing to do?

I guess I'm just confused because he hasn't made a move...

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Registered: 07-05-2003
Sun, 09-21-2003 - 10:05am
I wouldn't advise going up to him and kissing him. If you want a relationship with him you need to date before anything physical happens between you. Yes, sometimes friends do go out of their way to help one another. (When I was 21 a male friend drove 45 minutes from his house to to pick me up and take me home from a party because I had too much to drink - and he was "just a friend"). But sometimes friends become more than friends. Be friendly with this guy. Get to know him and flirt with him. If he's interested in a relationship he'll ask you out on a proper date.

jhoover

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Registered: 10-12-2003
Mon, 10-13-2003 - 2:14pm
he likes you. if a guy calls or goes out of his way to see you then he has an interest. he is just shy. maybe you ought to initiate things...a date or day out. see where that leads.