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|Mon, 04-14-2003 - 6:07pm|
On Saturday he called and said he had to go over a business plan with a friend (this is actually true) but then several hours later canceled our whole day but made plans with me for dinner that night. Several hours after that he called tried to cancel our evening plans, due to him feeling ill (we had quite a bit to drink the night before). I ended up hanging out at his place, when I tried to leave to go home and give him his space - he asked me stay.
We just fell asleep and that was it, I left early the next morning because I needed to get home. We kissed by and I said I'd see him later. He never called. I called him late Sunday and said that him flaking both days really hurt my feelings, and to please let know if he was feeling better and to let me know what was going on. He never returned my message.
The next morning I got this email:
"Got your message last night. Thanks for checking on me, sweetie pie. I'm feeling a little better. Hey, I am swamped with work and really have to focus this week. I think all of it has been weighing on me and the source of my blahs this weekend. I just want you to know in advance. Please don't be upset because we don't talk every day or I'm not as responsive as you'd like. I'll give you a ring when I have a chance. xo, P.S. You can look at the attached when you miss me. (with an attached picture)."
I understand that men need space sometimes especially when a lot is going on (he is trying to start a new comapany), but I personally have used my work schedule as a blow off. If you really like someone you can always give them a call. I do know however men approach things differently. Is this a blow off? What do I do?