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|Tue, 11-26-2013 - 5:16pm|
Here's an awkward story, bear with me.
I have known this guy through a mutual friend for a few years now, some of us have just assumed he was gay, he never brought dates around, never really hit on girls when out in clubs, he has never discussed conquests with any of the guys in the group, he holds conversations with women of our group but mostly things like baseball and work, no in-depth conversations, anyway, I never paid a lot of attention to him, he was a nice guy and he was fun, but I was always more interested in another guy and in fact had a friends with benefits relationship with this other guy for years, that has been over for about a year now and while old fwb and awkward guy were never really friends they are in the same circle of friends.
lately, things have been tense with fwb guy since he started dating a friend of mine and it got awkward. awkward guy was always there to talk to me and he has opened up a lot to me. He has started laughing at my jokes even when they arent funny, and even got a bit handsy with me at a party (awkwardly handsy and never actually said anything about it) . he was very drunk and eventually got sick and passed out in the living room. i left with my friend, and fell asleep.
thing is, I've sort of developed feelings for him over the past month or so, I am supposed to hang out with him and friends later this week, he may not remember Saturday, should o bring it up? should i suggest we hang out one on one? or should i drop it and just wait to see what happens next? I dont have his number or I would have texted him a "hey how ya feeling after all that drinking text" to start a conversation. but i cant so I dont know what to do.
do you think he just never made a move because of my fwb relationship with the other guy and has maybe started noticing