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|Sun, 01-08-2012 - 3:58pm|
A few weeks ago at my company Christmas party, I was talking to a co-worker that I do not normally have the chance to talk to as we work in different departments. We spent the majority of the night talking and getting to know each other and at one point he had mentioned that he has been attracted to me since I started working for the company last spring. Our conversation throughout the night became more intense and quite flirtatious. He had been drinking and I not so much and in the end, we ended up going back to his place and fooled around. I had left his place early in the morning and had texted him later that day telling him I had a great time and that I had hoped we could see each other again. He had replied that he felt that he had complicated things and that there were written and unwritten rules about fraternization where we work, however, is glad that we got to know each other more. Over the next few days we had texted back and forth, nothing to "flirty" or personal, more about how are holidays were going then out of nowhere, he stopped replying. Over the next several weeks we haven't exchanged texts, exchanged a few work related email and that's it. I finally saw him this past week and had a very brief conversation, however, for me, it felt a little strange. I spoke to a few of my girl friends and they all said that I should move on, how he should have texted/called, given me any kind of sign that there might be some thing . However, I'm nor sure if I should give up. I understand his position at work (being a director) and understand the consequences that if anyone found out that we were dating, however, I'm just not sure how to proceed. Act as nothing happened? Was it a one time deal? From what I know of him, he's not the type to be a jerk. Well respected, wants to help out everyone, just an all around nice person. What gives?