what is up with this guy

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2011
what is up with this guy
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Sun, 07-17-2011 - 11:47pm
So I started dating a guy in March, I am divorced 42. Things went very fast, we are both very attracted to each other and are alot alike. He was asking me to commit more, more time spent together, staying at his place and I was kinda of iffy. I honestly like to sleep in my own bed, seriously I did not know this could be a relationship killer. So 4th of July weekend we were suppose to spend together but didn't. I thought I would call his bluff (I know bad) and said I wanted to spend more time and wanted him in my life more. He the next week broke up with me because we don't spend enough time together. Ok hope you are keeping up so last week he starts texting and emailing me, which is fine he is a really nice guy. However today he texts me and says you are back on Match.com I said yep you broke up with me remember? So he was checking if I was on there and then wants to go to happy hour on Friday. He texted me all day today, I don't know what he is thinking he dumped me. Why bother with me anymore? Hope not too confusing any thoughts?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 07-17-2011 - 11:59pm

Nope, not confusing at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2011
Mon, 07-18-2011 - 12:09am
oh I want him back big time, how do I do that? Aside from dumping me he is the nicest guy I have met in my life. Gosh I am whipped.