What really are his intentions with me???

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Registered: 10-12-2008
What really are his intentions with me???
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Mon, 12-05-2011 - 6:11am

I met this guy the last week of October on the street around my neighborhood. Since, I'm fairly new to the area- he saw an interest in showing me around since he was the one who stopped me on the street. Since, that time he fails to return calls when he says he will and when he gets around to calling, it's only to invite me out that minute to go out to dinner. Our phone conversations never last no longer than 2 minutes because he is busy somewhere or

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Registered: 10-12-2008
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 6:45pm

I wouldn't mind getting to know him at a cafe.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 3:51pm

Sweetie, his intentions are to ask you on a date.

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Registered: 11-30-2011
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 2:11pm

If it was me and telling him doesn't work, then I would just ignore all calls and texts from him. I dated a guy once who just didn't listen when I explained to him, several times, why I did not want to continue seeing him. He would persistently call me and text. He would leave voicemails when I didn't answer asking me to please call him...it was important. but would never say what he wanted. Was his way of trying to get me to call. I never responded and over time the calls and texts became less and less. Hated to be that way but what else can you do when they just don't get it. So if you don't want to talk to this guy anymore, and telling him doesn't work just ignore the contact. Might be annoying hearing your phone go off frequently but you don't have to answer or respond. Maybe give him his own ringtone so you know it's him without looking and you accidently answer without thinking. What I did. :)