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|Mon, 04-19-2010 - 5:53pm|
I have been with my bf for almost 2 yrs, and we are both now in college studying for master degree. I am from Asia. We are both 28 yrs old.
The 3-month summer holiday is coming soon, and I invited my bf to visit my country, and told him I gonna take care of all expenses for traveling, since his financial situation is not that good. He accepted my invitation happily, and said he also likes spending time with me together. Yet he added: oh, when meeting your friends or relatives in china, just tell them I am your bf not husband, and we are bf and gf. Then I said: I told you already that it is just a relaxing traveling, has nothing to do with marriage. (Usually when meeting gf or bf's parents and relatives easily makes ppl think about marriage. )
But at that moment, I felt so bad. ys, I did talk about the future and marriage with him b4, and obviously he is not ready for that, and I want to have a family with him. Yet the traveling this time, I Really just wanna relax and enjoy time with him together, cz we never travled anywhere with him together b4. And during the traveling, we can deepen our feeling to each other further. I was originally happy for my plan, however what he said makes me think that : he likes spending time with me together, plus enjoy it freely (I am not sure whether he thinks like this), but on the other hand, he is so scared of being more close to me.
So now what I am thinking about is not the traveling together or not, but whether I should split with him.
Pl give me some suggestions!